It may seem trite for someone such as myself to automatically come to the conclusion that their sexuality is probably a greater defining factor in their lives than their spirituality; after all, one is born gay while religious traditions are usually inculcated into people throughout their lives. But it should be stressed that spirituality amongst the Hebrew faith has become such a part of their sense of identity that it has almost become as much a defining factor as their sexual orientation (which is determined at birth). It is upsetting to see gays Jews struggling to come to terms with the fact that their own social bonds may be damaged by no fault of their own.
It may seem trite for someone such as myself to automatically come to the conclusion that their sexuality is probably a greater defining factor in their lives than their spirituality; after all, one is born gay while religious traditions are usually inculcated into people throughout their lives. But it should be stressed that spirituality amongst the Hebrew faith has become such a part of their sense of identity that it has almost become as much a defining factor as their sexual orientation (which is determined at birth). It is upsetting to see gays Jews struggling to come to terms with the fact that their own social bonds may be damaged by no fault of their own.